I have something you need to hear 💚

Be kind instead of nice.

Nice, gentle, and generous with those around you. And then have the ability to set boundaries when you are disrespected.

It’s not your gentle side that led to past traumas, which may have closed your heart to others today.

It was your lack of boundaries that created them.

True courage is to have your heart re-open. You’re wiser now, trust in that, Shawn. You deserve love, connection, and intimacy.

Much love,
Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour